Free Tips On How To Instantly Catch A Woman's Interest
By Author Simon Heong
Have you ever noticed this?
Whenever a guy is with an attractive woman, he would naturally
want to attract her attention. Nothing new, right?
You will then notice, if she's really a 'hot' one, the guy
will not only want to attract her attention, but he'll also
want to try to impress her in whatever way he can.
He might be thinking that he wants to be different from the
other guys. And what will he do? Well, even though his mindset
is right, I would say that most likely, without him realizing
it, he won't he will do the obvious.
He'll be nervous as hell ie. he will naturally tend to talk
faster, more abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when he's
Notice that some guys will even have their own little 'interview'
thing going on in their head.
They'll have sort of like these pre-set questions that they will
be ever so ready to pound the girl with; lame questions, for example:
"how old are you," ... "where are you from" ... "what do you like
doing in your free time," ... "how's is your mom doing," ...
"how's your dad doing?"...
Know what I am talking about?
They will just keep asking these questions non-stop thinking
that this will actually keep the conversation going but
honestly, don't you think an attractive woman gets asked the
same old questions all the time?
Same goes with the age old concept of being the nice guy
who's there for her all the time, who does all the sweet
things for her, buying her gifts and doing all those stuff
that your parents normally teaches their kids on dating.
Now, don not you think that 90% of guys do the exact same
thing all the time?
You see, when you do this, she can basically sense that
you're being needy and insecure. Why do I say needy?
'Needy' because it gives her the impression that you need
to do certain things; you need to practically 'work' your
way to impress her.
It also projects a sign of weakness in your part, that
you're just insecure about yourself.
Trust me, doing so will seem way too 'normal' for them.
Women won't stick around when they sense you're just another
And women are extremely good in their intuition. I can't
really explain why. Nor can they. But it's just something
that they can just feel.
So, what's the best way to get women interested in you, then?
Do the UNEXPECTED.
It is doing the unpredictable that catches a woman's attention.
For example, in this case, what you can do is to project a
lack of interest in the girl whether or not she's there.
You see, I'm here telling you that it's perfectly OK to have
relaxed moments of silences when you're with the girl.
It's ok if you have nothing to say sometimes. Often times
what you should in fact do is to project a very laid back,
relaxed, and confident air about yourself when you're with
You must project to her that you're really comfortable with
your own self first and not just looking to pick up someone,
and to impress someone.
You have to show it to her that you don't need to impress
She'll have to be the one to do the impressing.
Think of it this way, if she's a real attractive woman, she
probably gets 'hit on' at least 3-5 times a day -- EVERYDAY.
I know for a fact that these guys will most likely act the
same pathetic way and will try to impress like the rest of
She knows it and it eventually becomes HER reality. She has
become used to having guys hit on her.
Now, if you suddenly come along and act as if you're not
intimidated by her beauty, and you just act as if you're not
one bit interested in her...
... and you just might not even acknowledge of her existence
at times. Imagine how things have changed now?
When she most EXPECTS you to hit on her, you don't.
Don't you think she'll wonder what's up with up with you?
Oh, my, you just got her attention and interest.
Think about this. It's some powerful stuff.
About the Author: Simon Heong is the publisher of the
Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the
"28 Sure Fire Ways To Instant Dating Success!" Handbook
... The Net's FIRST ever compilation guide revealing the most intimate secrets
on female attraction techniques and strategies.